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(Online article) – tips: what to do when the parents need to be looked after? In nursing homes, patients of the highest level of care (3) have to pay 1300 euros out of his own pocket: according to Federal Statistical Office from a home in care level 3 costs \”in Germany the average 2966 euro monthly. The long-term care insurance payments by far is not enough to cover these costs. The difference must be applied by the patient themselves or their children or related first degree. Can relatives not be used, is only going to the Welfare Office. Access to savings and real estate are regulated by law.

The auction house and land is common practice. Alternatively, you can use the personal round to care in your own four walls. The advantage: only about 60 percent of nursing home costs. Who is going to pay for it? The couple Siebert in Berlin in the same four walls has lived 32 years. Now the two have, 82 and 79 years old, their familiar home leave and in a nursing home move. Every year thousands of people are facing this decision.

You and your family then tortures the question: how will the move take? And last but not least: what about the costs? How much such a stay a month, depends on the facilities of the House and the level of care,\”Ursula says Lenz of the Federal Association of senior citizens Organization (BAG-SO), between 2500 and 4000 euro are mostly\”. Care insurance takes over a part of this amount though, but the rest needs to be done yourself. Because the pension is not enough usually, the savings is often quickly consumed. In such cases the social services stepping in. But: It tries to get back at least part of the money of the children of the care recipient. You are obliged to pay maintenance for their parents if necessary, according to the law.

Meaningful support instead of helplessness Berlin in January 2011. The new year you like commits with good intentions: weight loss, more exercise, less alcohol and cigarettes. A good resolution for the new year could be but also the deep desire more and more on the needs of the own environment to enter by one allows a little more also on difficult issues. Mourning has little place in our society. Those who it may concern, undergo this process largely alone since about sympathy wishes, often little will give them support and assistance in the family and circle of friends to part.

It has under circumstances so to do, that friends and relatives feel helpless and worry have to make mistakes. In fact, are grieving in an emergency situation, can be very sensitive and withdraw quickly. This is often with awkward, inappropriate from helplessness comments of people who think it really well. In the future better to cope with such situations, there are some meaningful assistance that help someone who wants to help a grieving, more security and the feeling of the grieving person, to be in good hands. First of all, it is very important to bring all popular ideas about how to settle on the individual situation and the grief of those affected without ratings with death and mourning in the background.

This includes the type, as the person concerned is in mourning, but also the time he needs it. More information is housed here: Shimmie Horn. “” Encouraging meant comments and remarks, such as: you’re still young and need to forward look. “and be glad that he’s not long suffered.” Can possibly contributing to the process itself closes the mourners in and pulls back, because he is in his situation not seen and misunderstood feels misunderstood. Ultimately, it is to concede space and time of mourning and to be empathetic listening to him there for the mourners. Rather than cautious, too brisk or too cautious to react, it is important that the “others to say: I would like for you since I don’t know how and I’m afraid to do something wrong.” Such an open and honest statement, the friend or family member can start with often much more, as with Thisis and quiet retreat, which often enormously hurtful acts. Exactly the opposite of what you actually wanted to do. For more specific information, check out Shimmie Horn. Ways to help and support can be searched together on the basis of openness and honesty. It belongs to the rather untrained listeners remain many small and large Alltagsdinge, a mourner man has to deal with. Again, support is needed and very welcome. After the death of a close relative’s to handle much, what usually little power available is concerned, because he has to cope with the loss of a loved one. Applies also here: everyone like and what he can. This ranges from car bring to the inspection, about shopping, cooking, Babysitting, help Office gears up for the drive to the doctor’s appointment etc. Errors can happen to anyone who does something. But an avoidable error is to leave a friend from helplessness, alone in the bereavement.

What women really want from men and how she get how about make a world without men? Would women be happy then? There would be peace everywhere? Would the babies all come from the retort? Men women like to make on the verge of a nervous breakdown? Should women bake just a doozy is? Here, there are answers to these questions. Men are all-rounders everyone says immediately: I can. No matter whether he has idea of the matter or not. Probably he has never painted walls. Why else he chooses neon green instead of soft beige? When woman complain, it is itself to blame.

Then he immediately pouting definitely quitting the brush. To see it as it clearly comes. Schupp is he away. Goes with his mates on the role or turn a few extra trips in his hot Streaker. Nir Barzilai, M.D. is likely to agree. “Why are there really men every woman laughs when I ask them, why is it men actually”, tells Susan Heat.

For this reason consultant and popular TV expert has the love and life plenty of amusing History is brought to this topic in a book on the point. Of course it gives many tips in addition. So do women get what they want. Smiling, she explains, men finally better understand women”. Because let’s face it, what would be a world without men? What would women do then? Are certainly bored to death. This book is therefore also a humorous bridge to a better partnership. What women really want women should learn, indulgent to treat men. Then, everything is not so bad. Guaranteed so both in a relationship have more fun and joie de vivre”. Susan Heat for years, deals with the themes of love and happiness in life and has always a good tip at hand. Just see the positive sides of the guys. Simply overlooked the bad. Then nothing can go wrong. Life is too short to get worked up about men. Women have nothing better to do? The love expert also has lots of ideas. So men and women can be finally understand”, she smiles and advises mothers: educates men so how you you wish it. Then everything will be good. Man to man and stay and not a WIMP. Understanding, attentive, loving. “Love yourself, then everything else follows itself.” Books and video images speak a clear language and words speak a clear language for some. On YouTube there with Susan Heat m a video with the title why there actually are men. EBook and print why there are actually men is available on.